I've tried a few platforms over the past year, and in my experience, sites like International Cupid and Elena's Models seem more focused on real connections compared to some others. But no matter which platform you use, the key is good communication. That’s where international messaging features really matter. Some apps charge too much just to send a simple message across borders. I recommend checking if the platform offers built-in international messaging without crazy fees—that saves a lot in the long run and keeps the conversation going naturally. Also, always take your time and watch out for red flags. Authenticity shows over time.